11 New-Mom Must-Haves No One Tells You About

Forget what you’ve read — we go beyond the basics and get right to the good stuff: the must-have baby items for first time moms. This article is orginally from The Bump (authored by Sarah Yang). Get pregnancy information, baby advice and parenting tips at TheBump.com baby website. Image source: Pexels 


People are always quick to chime in with lists of items you’ll need once baby arrives, but they often fail to mention key details. Sure, you need a stroller—but with so many (vastly different) options out there, how do you know what kind to get? When they say to get a teether, do they clue you in on the very specific brand of teether all babies seem to love? Here, we give you the inside scoop on the real mom must-haves (and we can give you a few deals on them too!).

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: YOU NEED A CAR SEAT AND A STROLLER

No one will tell you: Definitely get the travel system.

Of course you’ll need a stroller to move baby from point A to point B, but a travel system will get you a lot more mileage. Say you’re cruising around town with baby in the backseat, ready to embark on errand number three, and all of the sudden the little guy dozes off. Abort mission, right? Wrong. With a travel system, you’ll be able to slide baby’s car seat out of its base and stealthily snap it in place on your stroller in a matter of minutes. This one’s even modular, so baby can face you or face the world, depending on your preference. Or it can pop into carriage mode, eliminating the need for an additional bassinet attachment.

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: GET TEETHING TOYS

No one will tell you: Get this very specific one called Sophie.

There will come a time when you’ll do just about anything to make baby’s teething pain go away. Let us introduce you to the miraculous healing powers of Sophie, the giraffe teether. She’s made of natural rubber and food paint, with no toxic gunk whatsoever, which moms love. And we defended her through the flack she caught in early 2017. But why does baby love her so much? The jury’s still out on that one. Maybe it’s because her chewable appendages stick out every which way, making her easy to chomp on; or that she squeaks when you squeeze her and seems to be the perfect size for baby’s kung-fu grip. Whatever the reason, one thing’s clear: Her miraculous ability to keep baby happy (and silent) makes her a definite must-have.

Moms love: Sophie the Giraffe

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: YOU NEED A STROLLER

No one will tell you: You really should have two.

We know what you’re thinking: Two strollers? But hear us out. You won’t always want to push around a heavy stroller everywhere you go. Having a lightweight and easily collapsible option on hand will be a lifesaver (and a back saver) in the long run.

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: YOU NEED A SWING

No one will tell you: It’s gotta be tricked out.

You’ll need a swing to put baby in and keep her occupied while you’re running around your house like a madwoman trying to get a load of laundry done, make a phone call or even just get something to eat. But no one will admit that flashing lights, hookups for MP3 players and self-rocking mechanisms will buy you extra time and may even lull a fussy baby to sleep. This one offers extra peace of mind: one’s even used in 300 hospitals across the country to help soothe preemies and sick newborns.

Try this one4Moms mamaRoo

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: YOU NEED A DIAPER BAG

No one will tell you: Get one you don’t mind calling your purse.

Consolidate your gear and baby’s by springing for a diaper bag that doubles as your own bag. That’s right — there is such a thing as a stylish, all-purpose diaper bag, sans the paisley flowers or hideous bright polka dots. (Who knew?) As long as it’s got tons of pocket space and a washable matte finish, and easily attaches to your stroller, you’ll be good to go. We found one that even has a front wipe pouch for super easy access.

Try this oneVilah Bloom Harbor Side Tote

EVERYONE TELLS YOU: YOU NEED A BABY CARRIER

No one will tell you: Try it on before you buy it.

Toting your tot around will become a much easier feat with a baby carrier that’s actually comfortable to wear. You’ll want to look for one that has easily adjustable straps on your shoulders and hips so you can evenly distribute the weight (and save your back some pain).

Try this oneBabyBjorn Miracle baby carrier

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: YOU NEED A BREASTFEEDING PILLOW

No one will tell you: You need one for travel

Trust us, you don’t want to be lugging around a huge nursing pillow when you’re boarding a plane or adding to your already packed car trunk. But you’ll come to rely on this thing to keep you from straining your back while breastfeeding. Get a nursing pillow that’s compact and easy to carry around.

Try this one: Fertile Mind Milkbar Feeding Pillow

EVERYONE TELLS YOU: YOU NEED A BREAST PUMP

No one will tell you: Splurge on the top-notch one.

We won’t beat around the bush: Attaching two suction cups to your boobs won’t ever feel normal, but if you plan on nursing, then chances are you’ll want a reliable pump. And if you’re heading back to work or find yourself always on-the-go, you’ll want to invest in a sturdy, daily-use pump that can stand the test of time. Things to look for: portability and durability.

Try this one: Medela Swing Maxi – Double Breast Pump

EVERYONE TELLS YOU: YOU NEED A HIGH CHAIR

No one tells you: Get a travel chair.

You won’t be able to drag your high chair with you out to a restaurant. It’s no secret that babies and restaurants don’t always mix. But at least there’s one invention that will cut down on the chaos when dining out with your little one: the travel chair. Fixing itself easily onto the side of any dining table, you can store a travel chair in the back of your car. While it’s perfect for restaurants, it’s great for those trips to Grandma’s too.

Try this onephil&teds Lobster high chair

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: INVEST IN NURSING GEAR

No one will tell you: Throw in a lactation massager.

Clogged milk ducts are definitely not fun, but they’re unfortunately not that uncommon among nursing moms. When things get backed up, head straight for the LaVie Lactation Massager, the first-ever milk expression aid. It uses gentle vibrations to loosen plugged ducts and get your milk flowing again.

Moms loveLaVie Lactation Massager

EVERYONE WILL TELL YOU: GET A SAFE CAR SEAT

No one will tell you: Watch the recall list.

It pretty much goes without saying why you’d need a first-rate car seat, so we’ll skip the overview. In fact, you’ll probably put more research time into baby’s car seat than you did with your college thesis — and with good reason, since baby’s safety and comfort are your number-one priorities these days. Here’s a tip: Don’t just look at popular car seats; be sure to read up on all recently recalled products and newly issued safety standards too.

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